We all have been in the situation where you were ready to have a healthy discussion with someone, but that person just shut you down by saying “Leave” (I hate when this happens). Frustrating right, we are like if you did not wanted to hear why did you even started. So here are some reasons why people don’t like to have discussions.
- The fear of being wrong
Some of us have this fear, as we are ready to live in the world with our imaginary rules and regulations. When someone would try to show us that we are wrong we just walk away.
- The opponent is always wrong
This happens when you try to have a discussion with someone who is extremely confident. They refuse to think that maybe, their opponent is right ( Just for a change).
- The opponent is rude or worse Idiot
If this is the case then you should definitely walk away, without any second thoughts. This will save your energy and you can do something productive because rude one will not listen to you and idiot will not understand what you are trying to say.
- No evidence
Some of us believe in something without verifying whether it is even correct or not. We just believe them without any evidence.
- Reward
Guys reward doesn’t only mean that you will get the trophy. After a discussion, if the person changes their thought towards that particular topic that is also your reward.
Folks discussions are not about being right or proving your point. It just means that you should just see things from someone else point of view. Allow your kids or friends to say, have discussions with them because if you don’t then how would you know that what other person is thinking right or wrong. This would help you and them grow.
Also read Do you also face all this? If yes then you are becoming an Insomniac
Article By: Arpita