I know it’s not easy to trust your partner, but you can learn to do it. And the best way is always through experience. I don’t understand how it works either, but the more you go through with trusting your partner, then gradually you will start to feel a sense of safety and trust in that relationship.
This article will tell you what steps you need to take in order to enhance this sense of security within yourself and with your significant other.
Talk about your issues
Talk about the trust issues that you have in your relationship with your partner. In this way, it will help you to know how well he/she feels about this subject.
Have a friendly, trusting relationship to the point that they understand you and respect you. You don’t need anything from them or they do to you, but just be there for each other without expecting much of anything in return.
Be understanding of the situation
Be as understanding and accepting of things that go wrong as possible. Take in every little thing and learn from it instead of holding grudges against your partner for whatever sad occurrences that happen between the two of you.
Take a position of being in trust during these sad happenings. This is the best way to show your loved one that you believe in them enough to go through these problems happily and together for the sake of your relationship.
Show faith that it will get better or let it go peacefully.Letting it go with peace instead of anger will help you both in the long run because he/she will know that they can trust you and vice versa.
Let the mistakes be honest
Be honest about your mistakes if there are any, whether they influenced the break up or not, but do this after you understand why they did what they did and if there was any real reason in doing so at all. This will help you understand your partner better and prevent more unnecessary break ups from happening.
Give full trust in your partner as much as you can. You don’t want to lose the person that you love because you stopped trusting him or her, so let the trust flow both ways for the sake of your relationship.
Make yourself stay away from unwholesome relationships simply because you want to lose their trust and not vice versa. This will help tremendously in developing stronger trust between each other in the future for better understanding and more caring relationship with each other.
Don’t lie to each other
Never lie to each other. Just tell the truth even if it hurts them or you because this will help both of you trust each other with full faith and honesty.
Develop a trusting relationship by talking, sharing, and getting to know each other. Your relationship will be stronger than ever if you take time to communicate through good times and bad (See more on how to improve communication in your relationship here) .
Be a great team player.Nowadays, it’s hard to find someone who is loyal enough and trustworthy enough to even share their secrets with. If you can be such a person than your relationship will really be deeper and stronger than ever.
Conclusion
Trust gaps are a part of life and relationships. Don’t be too harsh with each other just because of the different points of view. Even if they are a bit harsh , they are not wrong at all, it’s just their way of showing their love for you as their partner and nothing more than that. All couples have trust gaps . Avoid unnecessary fights and arguments. Fighting wastes valuable time in your relationship which could then be used to focus on positive things such as communicating well with each other instead (See more on communication here) .
Be strong enough to accept situations that happen between the two of you.