- “Past” a strong word related to every human on the face of the earth. There would be no individual who would not have some emotional history. Honestly, these experiences get credit for our personalities we carry today. Due to those problems we faced, fights we had, the time we struggled for figuring out things,all that made us look at things from a different perspective. While some of us are great actors, we should get an award for acting up like we moved on with life, there are signs which shows that you are moving on but with past along.
- Revisiting past events
Whether it is day or night you visit your past without fail. If you don’t want to visit then something or the other will happen which will drag you back.
- Back to square one when left alone
You would be meeting new people, hanging out with them, making memories, basically doing everything that makes you happy but when you are left alone even for few minutes then your ex-pops up.
Even after working for hours when you go to bed, you can’t sleep. As soon as you lay down flashback starts in front of your eyes.
Whether you like it or not, willingly or unwillingly you give reference of some similar incident that happened between you two when you are talking to someone.
- Can do the same things
No matter how long it has been, you still can’t listen to the same songs you use to listen with them. You try to avoid them so that you don’t remember anything from your past.
Well, in my opinion holding onto something (even if it is your past) is fine as long as it does not destroy you. Past experiences can be bitter but it doesn’t mean you have to become bitter too. So try moving on without the baggage of past.
Article By: Arpita