The relationship is the most beautiful thing as per people (according to me it is the most vahiyaat thing) anyway the generic cycle of love is, two people meet, they talk talk talk, then fall in love with each other and then either you get married or you have a break-up and worst case scenario is; you become friends. If you get married then congratulations you got your one person whom you can annoy for life but if you have a break up then what? You make a misery out of yourself. Guys, there are some harsh truth about break up that people don’t tell you because they don’t want you to get hurt more but, in my opinion, these truths are something you should know so that you can heal yourself.
- He/ She was not your “THE ONE”
The person you had to break up with was not THE ONE. If they were the one then instead of break up you guys would have been planning for your wedding.
- This is not LAILA-MAJNU Era
Folks this is 2018 and not Laila Majnu era so no one dies after break up. While you are crying over that person he/she is busy searching for their new world.
- You can live without them
You were born without them so you can live without them. This will take the time it is not like one day or overnight process. Slowly and gradually you will learn to live without them. Give yourself a chance and who knows you live a much happier life without them.
- It is not the end of the world
You just had a break up it is not the end of the world. It is up to you how you treat it either as the end of the world or the beginning of a new one.
- Missing is a natural thing
You will miss them so stop lying to yourself that you don’t miss them because it is of no use. You spent the whole day and night talking to them you will miss them it is natural. So instead of crying cherish those memories.
Break up is meant to hurt but it is up to you whether you want to be a victim of it or not. If your situation is like you can’t let go that person then try to convince again or just pray that in the end, it should be a happy ending.
Article By: Arpita