Well being in a relationship is a great (maybe) so is being independent. Well according to me being in a relationship with someone means sharing your true self and not being dependent on them. Relationship means being with someone with whom you can share your feelings, fears, your most weird dreams, etc etc… But, certainly for some, the meaning has changed and it means being dependent on your other half in every way possible. Girls, for the matter of fact guys love to pamper you but not always. So here I am to help you become a little bit independent in your relationship (you might love it if you try!!)
- Have Your Own Social Life
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For God sake don’t combine your social circles and have your own social life. It’s not mandatory that you and your special one should have everyone as a mutual friend on Facebook.
- Maintain a separate bank account
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Well if you are working or not have you must have a separate bank account. Don’t hide it let your partner know about it.
- Give time to your family
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People, please spend at least some time with your family. DON’T NEGLECT THEM from your busy schedule if you can find time for your babu Shona (Whatever) find the time for them too ( you owe them ). Let your family know that nothing has changed you are still that annoying kid of the family (basically a life of family).
- Give yourself ‘ME TIME’
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In this hectic life don’t forget to spend time with yourself. Do whatever you like or wish to do because this would help you reduce your stress and frustrations of daily life.
- Travel solo
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I know on this point you might say ”Ghar vale Nhi Jaane denge’ but if you are born with a silver spoon and your family allows please rush to your solo trip.
- Be focused towards your career
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Being in the relationship doesn’t mean you have to neglect your career. Be as focused towards your career as you were before your relationship status changed.
- Remain true
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Koi Pyar Kare Toh Tumse Kare, Tum Jaise Ho Waise Kare… Koi Tumko Badal Ke Pyar Kare, Toh Woh Pyar Nahi Woh Sauda Kare … Aur Saheba, Pyar Mein Sauda Nahi Hota …
Well, these famous lines of Raj Aryan type Movie (Apna Shahrukh) of Mohobattein are only Bollywood dialogue I agree to. Love doesn’t mean become a chameleon don’t change as per partners need but change when necessary, when you feel like and most importantly when it doesn’t harm you.
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Article By: Arpita