We have tried many times working on relationships like “husband-wife”, “parents-children’s”, “girlfriend-boyfriend” etc, and many times we fail, as it is really hard to make them happy and maintain a healthy relationship with them, so we try till our last breath to maintain that relationship and while maintaining that, we forget one of the most important relationship i.e. “relationship with our soul” which is the most sacred relationship.
“Do everything happily. Walk, talk, sit happily; even if you complain against somebody, do it happily.”
~ Sri Sri Ravi Shankar
Our happiness is the most important thing we should put first among anything, as if we are not happy from within, we cannot make anyone happy, so it is important whatever you do just do with the happiness. If things are not working according to you don’t get stressed because in any case you do not have control on things that are going with you as they are related to your past karma, what you can do is just do what you are doing with happiness, believing that situations will change, time will change, everything will going to be alright.
We always Try to fill our loneliness by looking for a companion or anything outside which will not going to work, no matter what, there will be conflicts with them as you can’t make them happy your whole life, there will be some situations when they say you harsh words or something and you will feel hurt.
Whole our life we keep on running behind things with the hope of getting something. We keep on looking for some kind of profit. The one, who relaxes in his consciousness, is happy and experiences the true happiness.
I am not saying there is no happiness in the outer world, but the happiness you get when you build a relationship with your soul is incomparable. The world is running in search of happiness. The body gets affected, the mind gets affected, but still, we keep on getting stuck in the same repetitive cycle.
When you meet your soul, you come to know that you are the source of happiness. Then the mind calms down, and you realize that you are the one in whose search you kept on running here and there.