Who you are when you are in a relationship with someone? I am sure, most of the people try to pretend what they are not and for God sake, I am afraid of all those overreacting words..mela baabu, mela shona….Arghhhhh.
Relationships are something these days everyone is rushing into which later ends up making their worst nightmare come true yes, Breakup. Things don’t end just with the breakup but actually, it is a starting point of ones’ struggle with the situations.
Most common rituals after having a breakup are not sleeping, watching romantic movies (please someone tell me why?), either not eating or overeating and most important is, crying.
Well from my point of view either you can become the victim of you break up or use it as a weapon of motivation and surprise the world.
- Enjoy and move on to next adventure.
The first thing after crying alone (DON’T CRY in fact) in the dark night is that “dark knight must rise”. Yes man, you are back again. Why and what to cry for. If you can’t move on try moving ahead. It’s basically a situation where you accept the situation and move with your feelings.
- Start watching something different
Start watching a new series of the different genre. Instead of watching something you have watched with your ex just watch something totally different. Go for horror, action, thriller or anything you like. This would help you diverting your mind
- Go out have a break up a party
Don’t just stay in the home like you have been house arrested. Go out with friends, meet people you have not met in a long time, catch up on them have a breakup party. I am sure your friends will love to see you groove and having fun.
- Try to do something productive
Apart from your regular chores do something that adds something positive to the day. Even a little positivity can have the huge impact on you.
- Talk … don’t make your heart a storage room!
If you still feel you are not able to move on just talk to someone you feel comfortable with. This would help you release your frustration, anger, sadness or anything you might feeling within you. Keeping feelings in your heart will only worsen the situation.
Life is beautiful, please don’t waste it because of something that might not even matter after few years. Miracles happen every day, do your part and then see universe doing his.
Article By: Arpita