Being in love is a very beautiful feeling. It’s not difficult to know whether you are in love or not. Love is a very obvious emotion. If you are in love not only you but people around you will also get this thing that you are undergoing a positive emotional change. Every individual at a certain point in their lifetime experience this feeling of being in love with someone and being loved by someone.
Love exists in many forms like we love our parents, our parents love us, we love our friends, pets etc. But the love we are talking about here is a different kind of love. You experience this love of someone who does not belong to your family, someone of the opposite gender or maybe of the same gender if you have something of homosexual feelings. This love is based on a romantic relationship. Where to first time feel a strong attachment with the person you hardly know or someone you recently met. You just start liking everything about them.
So in this article, we are going to talk about this romantic concept of love and will tell you some obvious things that you will observe if you are in love.
A single person becomes your entire world
When you fall in love, everything around you starts seeming beautiful. It is obvious that you will be in love with someone with either of the opposite gender or same, depending upon your sexual preference. Trust me, love is unbound. It is not necessary that you fall in love with the opposite gender only if you are inclined towards the same gender you will fall for one just like you.
At once you will not know that you are in love. You will just start feeling something different in your heart. A single person can give butterflies in your stomach every time you see or talk to them. Love is symptomatic just like a fever. Before actually knowing that you are in love you can observe symptoms of being in love.
The person you are in love with has the potential to change your entire world. You start adjusting your things according to them. It might be your schedule of wearing up, going to work, sleeping time or spending leisure time. You make modifications according to them.
If you are in love with someone, very soon you will start craving for them. Their single small effort will seem hundred of times exaggerated to you. You will start making efforts for them. Their smile can make your smile last more than usual. You will get a different-different kind of feelings when you love in new for them. The Friends you use to enjoy being with will be troubling if it is the time for a specific person. So, in short, the person you start falling for will become your everything.
You start having a positive perspective towards life
Love adds positivity to life. It drives always the negative thoughts cultivating inside your head and adds some good vibes and positive aura to it. When you are in love everything around you starts seeming beautiful. There is a simple logic behind this fact that why love adds positivity to your life. So when you are in love with someone, that person keeps your brain engaged. It doesn’t matter whether they are around you or not their memories, the time you spent with them, the excitement of the time you will be spending with them, their thoughts, the world of imagination that you read inside your head keeps your brain busy with them and your brain does not get free time to build-up negative thoughts. There is a common saying that, an empty head is a home to the devil. And love you start cultivating inside your heart does not let your brain free to think anything else. You just keep thing about the person you are in love with.
So observe changes inside you. If you start feeling happy about small things. If you start feeling your life beautiful, if you start feeling people around you beautiful, cross-check once, I guess you started falling in love. This is how love adds something good to your life. It makes you a better person by adding lots of positive perspective on life.
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You save time to give them time
Love I just like a plant, it grows up in a gradual process. You need to add good mature, water it daily, and allow it to absorb proper sunlight. Then only the seed will burst in too roots and leaves and further grow strong day by day into a huge tree. Yes, love too need such efforts. It needs time, patience and trust. But here we are talking about how will you come to know whether you are in love or not?
It is quite simple. You start investing your most precious thing into someone. Yes, it’s your time. You wish to have more and more time with the person you are in love with. This sounds quite silly but it’s true. Love makes your brain curious about things. You wish to know more and more about the person you started falling for. Your brain needs every single detail about that person so that in future you can impress them by doing things they like. And this curiosity makes you crave for their time.
So if you wish to know whether you are in love, just observe your recent activities. Have you started adjusting your schedule for someone else? Have you started waking up early, or sleeping late just to talk to someone or give time to them? Have you started craving for someone presence? If it is so, dude, for sure you are in love.
You wish to have frequent meetups with the person you are in love with
Okay, so just a hone call in not enough for not you start having a wish of frequent meetups. You start banking your classes, skiing your meetings just to spend some time with someone you are in love with. You start leaving the office early just to catch the person. And spend some time with them. This is a genuine behavior of anyone who is in love. If this is happening to you to then may it’s love. Rest all people around you who once use to be your best companion, now seems useless because no one else is like the person you started conceiving feelings for. Their presence brings happiness to you. You may not have any valid reason fir the meetup, you may find silly excuses to see the person you are in love with.
It’s true that love makes you do silly things but my friend it is true that love is the most beautiful thing that can ever happen in your life. It can change your whole perspective about life. As much you spend time with the person you are in love with that much you will gain knowledge about them and this knowledge will mold your mentality and your start extending like them as you wish to be part of them or just like them.
You start developing a feeling of jealousy
Jealousy is another most common thing that you will experience when you start falling in love with someone. It is possible that feelings might be one-sided or you start feeling earlier that the other person and this is the time you develop this feeling of jealousy. In this generation, it is obvious to have many friends, this includes friends of the opposite gender too. Few friends people mention as best friends are considered extra close. And if the person you started developing feelings for has a friend of the opposite gender who is much closer to them or them have a colleague who knows about your love more than you, it is obvious that that is feeling jealous. It is not necessary that their friends also got feelings for them but your extra concern toward them will make you a bit more positive for them. And the bad part here is, the person you started falling in love with is still unaware of this feeling inside you. He or she may treat you just like they do to other friends. Or they may treat someone else better than you. Such a situation will set your heart on fire. You will be high on insecurities. You start developing hatred and jealousy towards the person close to your love. So if you start experiencing this feeling of jealousy and you feel your self over possessive for someone you might be in love.
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You start dreaming of them
Another thing which is common at the initial stage of love is dreams. Since you are completely into the person and your mind is constantly busy in thinking about them, it is quite obvious to have dreams of them. Yes, you start seeing a single person frequently in your dreams. You dream can be good, bad or confusion but they will have one thing common and that will be the person you start nurturing feelings for. This session of dreams lasts for a very long time as long as you keep on thinking about them. So when you start having frequent dreams of someone, maybe you started to fall for them.
You wish to be the first person on their list of priority
When you are in love with someone you wish to be the person who is most close to them. You wish to be their secret holder, their full-time gossip partner, their partners in happiness and sorrows. You will start wishing to have some time in private with them, where there is no one to interrupt your conversation. Where you can speak to each other freely without fear of being judged.
You wish to stay as close to them as possible. You start expecting things from the person you are in love with. You start sharing your things with them and expect the same from them. You wish to be the shoulder for them relay on. If you are in love you start doing many things which might even be unexpected for you yourself. You do everything for the person you are in love with just to gain some extra points in their list of preference.
You unknowingly start making extra efforts
Yes, unknowingly you start making efforts which might even be unacceptable for you in the starting. Like you would have never expected from you thing you find yourself doing just to put a smile on someone else face. Many times you put your ego aside to and surrender yourself to someone just to sort things between you two. Many times they would have hurt you but you wholeheartedly forgive them just to be with them. Your excuse someone for mistakes they did even when they made no apologies. These are some extra efforts you put into someone when you are in love with them.
When such unexpected things happening with you then, make yourself clear that you started developing feelings for them. These changes in you might irritate you and leave your brain restless. But a small from your love’s side will vanish all these uncertainties and you all these efforts will seem worthy enough to be made.
Love is love. You cannot make someone fall in love with you also you cannot stop yourself falling in love with someone. It is a feeling which is uncontrollable. Love is free from all kinda restrictions and expectations. When you are in love you will start feeling less of you and more of them in you. Love is just like water, unbound, unrestricted, pure, powerful, soothing and beautiful. It may come to you in different form but once in your lifetime you gonna have a great encounter with this feeling of love. With this article, you would have got a bit idea about how does it feel like being in love, still explain love in words is yet not possible as it is a very personal experience that you are going to have.