For children seeing their parents fight on regular basis is the most painful thing. Its like they are watching a Disney movie and suddenly the sweet Elsa turned into a scary poisonous dragon who wants to destroy everything ( not expected right). it’s our mistake that we think the child is small and would forget all this later on. Sometimes they don’t they might not say out loud but they may remember. The effects of parents fight may have the dangerous effect on their mind and personality
- They tend to lose respect for you. Seeing you fighting on regular basis would eventually lead to losing your respect in your child’s eyes.
- They start believing that there is nothing like LOVE. They won’t believe in love they may get scared of it.
- Short tempered behavior this is most commonly seen. As children are not able to express themselves they start to accumulate their anger which later on makes them short-tempered as they don’t realize that they are releasing their passive anger.
- Depression this could lead to them being an addict to ciggerates, alcohol or drugs.
I know there are fights in every relationship but I also know that everything has an imprint too.t Every child has its own way to deal with fights so have a closer look towards your child’s behavior. So if you have a fight in front of your kids then make sure you make up for that too. Say sorry, I love you, bring something for your spouse and kids so that they know that parents do fight but that doesn’t mean that they don’t love each other.
Article By: Arpita