If you are alone you should feel the freedom! Look at the birds, how they fly; when they want to fly they just don’t ask anyone, they feel like flying so they do.
Just think, When there is nobody to bug you, nobody to ask you where did you go? What did you do? Who did you look at?
No control, nothing! It is like being a free bird, just jump around like a bird. You want to put some music on and dance!
What do you mean by lonely?
As per you, when you don’t have anyone around you to look at you or spend time with you when you feel like spending time with your friends, family they are not there for you. So I will clear this misunderstanding of yours, just having a partner does not take away your loneliness, mind you! There are millions of people who have partners, soul mates, friends and family and yet they feel lonely!
if you ask the ideal couples, “Tell me one secret, do you ever feel lonely or anything like that?” They will say, “Yes!”
Self-care is the only way to be happy when you are alone!
While it is usually good to be alone, it is not good to be lonely or afraid of being alone. The only people who don’t feel lonely are the ones who are connected with the being, with the self. One who is established in the self feels no loneliness. Only spiritual awakening can take away the loneliness, not soul mates.
When you know what makes you truly happy, like spending time to nurture your soul with blessings of eternal god, practice self-love, take care of yourself and step out of your comfort zone, you will be able to see how powerful being happy alone can be.