“Fit in” two words that have completely ruined the meaning of “Be Original”. I have seen people trying so hard to fit in whether it is school, office, friends, everywhere and all I could think about was why? Why anyone would like to be someone else unless it is Halloween but we live in India we don’t celebrate Halloween. So after some brainstorming and research could get some reason (which I don’t find fair enough)
- Fear of being alone
As we all have witnessed that when someone is slightly different from us, some suffer from life threats I mean some people just boycott the person, make fun of him/her. So to avoid that isolation some of us try to fit in.
- Consistent want of attention
As human beings have this crazy thing call “emotions” (which really sometimes drives you insane), we suffer from the urge of getting attention. We just love when someone leaves everything and pampers us. I think people come in the relationship only for attention I mean it is nice to know that out of 7 billion people at least you have one who would listen to you even if they don’t want to.
- 4 log
4 log kya bolenge,koi mujhe millva do inhone bahut logo ki zindagi barbaad kar rakhi hai. If anyone wants to do anything that is beyond the typical rules of society these imaginary 4 log appears. I just have one question has anyone seen these 4 log?
We all are good lawyers but the even better judge. As people don’t want to get judged they follow the stereotypes they hate. Just to avoid!
- Loves to be sheep
It takes a lot of guts to be the wolf. So to avoid all the hard work of being a wolf; happily be a sheep.
Folks, it is all right to be unique. If everyone in the past tried to fit in then the world would not have brilliant personalities like Albert Einstein, JK Rowling, and many more. So it is really okay to not to ‘fit in’ and stop forcing yourself.
Article By: Arpita